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Regular Sex can Save Marriage

Ajouté le 14/12/2010

love and sexAn American research has suggested that regular sex can be a relationship saver for neurotic couples. The highly neurotic, who tend to be moody, irritable and easily upset, have less happy partnerships and are more likely to divorce. But the study finds that making more love more often may solve their problems, reports the Daily Mail. Scientists followed 144 newlyweds over the first four years of marriage asking them how happy they were and how often they had sex.

On average, it was once a week during the first six months of marriage. By the fourth year, it had dropped to three times a month. Marital satisfaction was not associated with the amount of sex - except among the highly neurotic.

The benefit of having it regularly wiped out their 'happiness deficit' completely. "Neuroticism is consistently associated with negative relationship outcomes," wrote James McNulty and Michelle Russell, from the University of Tennessee."

The current four-year longitudinal study suggests one factor that may buffer neurotic individuals against their neuroticism - frequent sex. "Results indicated that the frequency with which couples engaged in sexual intercourse with one another over each six-month interval moderated the implications of their neuroticism for their marital satisfaction," they wrote.

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Best Sex Positions For Couples-What Are You Looking For

Ajouté le 9/11/2010

love & sexThe best sex positions for couples varies depending on who you talk to and what you read. Whatever the case may be, learning some new positions is a great start to becoming a better lover.

If you find that your sexual relationship is getting a bit stale then finding some new positions is a great start to getting a proper sex life back.

Below are some general overviews of what different position types offer.

Missionary positions, yes there are more than one, are some of the best sex positions for couples looking to heighten the intimacy of sex between you and your partner. If you are a woman who likes to be in control then there are a multitude of women on top positions that can give you all the control you want.

Are you the type who likes to incorporate toys into the mix?

The side by side positions are some of the best sex positions for couples who like to incorporate manual stimulation. Looking to hit the magical g-spot on your lady? The from behind positions are some of the best to help you make your women scream.

As you can see, depending on what you and your partner are looking for, there are certain positions that are better at achieving certain "goals". Take the time, learn some from each category and become a better lover. I can guarantee that your partner will thank you for doing your homework.

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Men Like Sexy Women

Ajouté le 18/10/2010

sex & loveMen who were shown full-body photographs of college-aged women who expressed cues of sexual interest or rejection, represented mixed sexual histories, and a capacity for varying degrees of sexually aggressive behaviour.

Throughout the study they were presented with previously viewed photos and new photos of the same women in which they communicated the opposite cue (e.g., rejection instead of sexual interest).

On an average, every man showed excellent memory for whether women initially displayed sexual interest or rejection, especially when she initially expressed positive sexual interest, was dressed more provocatively, and was thought to be attractive. Lead author Teresa Treat observes, "Misremembering a woman's level of sexual interest could prompt some men to make an unwanted sexual advance and become frustrated when a woman doesn't respond as anticipated."

"Conversely, college-aged men who report more frequent serious romantic relationships with women show better memory for college-aged women's sexual-interest and rejection cues. This suggests that tracking and remembering a partner's emotions may play a role in the initiation and maintenance of a serious romantic relationship," she added.

The long-term significance of the findings will depend on whether the memory of sexual interest impacts the male's subsequent behaviour, experiences, and social decisions when cues of sexual interest are presented in a more lifelike manner.

However, numerous factors other than memory for a partner's emotions play a central role in developing both positive and negative sexual experiences among young adults.

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